There would be an upcoming 3-days Singles Retreat on November 11, 2011. We've been wanting to join but we exhaust all our Vacation Leaves for the year.
It was really a blessing that Pnoy announced October 31 as holiday. I filed a leave previously for that day so I will be able to acquire it back.
Yey! Truly it's a blessing. God really wanted us to join. Hopefully, money wont' be a problem.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Give Thanks and Praise
I've been praying for a lot of things and got frustrated when I don't get the answers right away. Then I read that I need to give thanks and praise than ask and ask. This shows how strong our faith is that God will provide answers.
After that, answers are coming my way ^-^
Thank you God you are so good!
After that, answers are coming my way ^-^
Thank you God you are so good!
Monday, August 29, 2011
No God, Know Fear --- Know God, No Fear
Fear Not. Do Not be afraid. --> this is oftentimes mention in the bible
FEAR is wrong use of the imagination. It is anticipating the worst and not the best to happen.
When you allow your fear to overwhelm your faith, your future is over.
Fear is a good emotion if it's for your own good. Fear is a bad emotion if it's irrational.
“Do not be afraid, Abram.
I am your shield,
your very great reward.”
who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you.
do not be dismayed, Israel,’
declares the LORD.
‘I will surely save you out of a distant place,
your descendants from the land of their exile.
Jacob will again have peace and security,
and no one will make him afraid.
be glad and rejoice.
Surely the LORD has done great things!
39 He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.
40 He said to his disciples, “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?”
41 They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”
for you alone, LORD,
make me dwell in safety.
Faith is not believing in spite of circumstances.
Faith is obeying inspite of feelings and circumstances.
From the movie "Shawshank Redemption":
I guess it comes down to a simple choice really. Get busy living or get busy dying...
KNOWING GOD CONQUERS FEAR!
whom shall I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid?
FEAR OF GOD, CONQUERS FEAR!
all who follow his precepts have good understanding.
To him belongs eternal praise.
who put their hope in his unfailing love.
FEAR is wrong use of the imagination. It is anticipating the worst and not the best to happen.
When you allow your fear to overwhelm your faith, your future is over.
Fear is a good emotion if it's for your own good. Fear is a bad emotion if it's irrational.
Matthew 25:25-26
25 So I was afraid and went out and hid your gold in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.’
26 “His master replied, ‘You wicked, lazy servant! So you knew that I harvest where I have not sown and gather where I have not scattered seed?
26 “His master replied, ‘You wicked, lazy servant! So you knew that I harvest where I have not sown and gather where I have not scattered seed?
Nothing under God's control is ever out of control.
Genesis 15:1
1 After this, the word of the LORD came to Abram in a vision: “Do not be afraid, Abram.
I am your shield,
your very great reward.”
Exodus 14:13
13 Moses answered the
people, “Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance
the LORD will bring you today. The Egyptians you see today you will
never see again.
Deuteronomy 31:6
6 Be strong and courageous.
Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God
goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Judges 6:23
23 But the LORD said to him, “Peace! Do not be afraid. You are not going to die.”
2 Kings 6:16
16 “Don’t be afraid,” the prophet answered. “Those who are with us are more than those who are with them.”
Isaiah 41:13
13 For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you.
Jeremiah 30:10
10 “‘So do not be afraid, Jacob my servant; do not be dismayed, Israel,’
declares the LORD.
‘I will surely save you out of a distant place,
your descendants from the land of their exile.
Jacob will again have peace and security,
and no one will make him afraid.
Joel 2:21
21 Do not be afraid, land of Judah; be glad and rejoice.
Surely the LORD has done great things!
Matthew 10:31
31 So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
Luke 1:30
30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God.
John 6:20
20 But he said to them, “It is I; don’t be afraid.”
Acts 18:9
9 One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision: “Do not be afraid; keep on speaking, do not be silent.
Revelations 1:17
17 When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead. Then he placed his right hand on me and said: “Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last.
Mark 4:35-41
35 That day when evening came, he said to his disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.” 36 Leaving the crowd behind, they took him along, just as he was, in the boat. There were also other boats with him. 37 A furious squall came up, and the waves broke over the boat, so that it was nearly swamped. 38 Jesus was in the stern, sleeping on a cushion. The disciples woke him and said to him, “Teacher, don’t you care if we drown?” 39 He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.
40 He said to his disciples, “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?”
41 They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”
Psalm 4:8
8 In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, LORD,
make me dwell in safety.
Faith is not believing in spite of circumstances.
Faith is obeying inspite of feelings and circumstances.
From the movie "Shawshank Redemption":
I guess it comes down to a simple choice really. Get busy living or get busy dying...
KNOWING GOD CONQUERS FEAR!
John 14:6
6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
John 8:12
12 When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”
Psalm 27:1
1 The LORD is my light and my salvation— whom shall I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid?
FEAR OF GOD, CONQUERS FEAR!
Mark 4:41
41 They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!”
Psalm 111:10
10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding.
To him belongs eternal praise.
Exodus 20:20
20 Moses said to the
people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of
God will be with you to keep you from sinning.”
Psalm 147:11
11 the LORD delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.
Philippians 4:19
19 And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.
John 11:25
25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die;
Matthew 10:28
28 Do
not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul.
Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell. Monday, August 22, 2011
Master Your Emotions: Of Envy and Jealousy
Jealousy and Envy often times prevailed over friendship and Contentment
1 Corinthians 3:1-9
Psalm 73:1, 12-28 --Asaph expressed his struggle
Deuteronomy 6:1-3
1) If we truly delight in the Lord We need to recognize our struggle - know our enemy.
If we don't recognize our enemy we will be facing sure defeat, like not recognizing the struggle, will make us surely down
ENVY
* Envy is resenting the advantage of another, with a desire to possess the same advantage
* Envy is coveting what another has
* The Latin word for "envy" is invidere, which means means to look at with enmity.
JEALOUSY
* Jealousy is resenting another's rivalry or unfaithfulness, with a desire to guard or maintain what one possesses.
* Jealousy is possessiveness.
* The Greek word for "jealousy" is zeloo, which means "zealous or burning with jealousy."
Envy is ALWAYS WRONG
Scripture never portrays envy in a positive light.
God is never depicted as an envious God.
Matthew 27:15-18
Jealousy IS NOT ALWAYS WRONG
It is natural and normal for feelings of jealousy to surface when a meaningful covenant relationship is threatened by unfaithfulness.
Numbers 5:25-31
Why is God called a JEALOUS God?
Jehovah God initiated a special covenant relationship with the Israelites. Because of His Love for Israel, God felt jealous pain when they threatened to destroy the covenant relationship and became disloyal.
Exodus 34:14
14 Do not worship any other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God.
The difference between Envy & Jealousy
ENVY
- burning desire to have
- coveting what another has
- empty hands that crave to be filled
- usually involves two people
JEALOUSY
- burning desire to keep
- possessive of what one has
- full hands that fear being emptied
- usually involves three people
Galatians 5:19-21
19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
How we know we are Envious?
- we feel boastful
- we feel internal pain towards the success of others
- we became competitive
How we know we are Jealous?
- we became judgemental
- not allowing others to outside relationship
- we became anxious
- overly possessive
- unable to trust God, distrustful leading to insecurity
This enemy also disguises itself:
Here are disguises for masking envy or jealousy:
- Making an issue of unfairness of life
- Pretending apathy or indifference to people or situations
- Feeling of self-pity
- Avoiding problems or people that could produce envy or provoke jealousy
- Idolizing certain people by placing them on an unreachable pedestal
- Offering false praise and congratulations
- Dropping unnecessary, negative information about another
- Projecting jealousy or envy onto another
- Developing a superior attitude toward another
- Becoming a martyr
2) Run to the Lord after recognizing our struggles.
Psalm 75:4-7 --> Realize the Sovereignty of God
3) Resist Comparing ourselves from others
1 Corinthians 3:1-9
Psalm 73:1, 12-28 --Asaph expressed his struggle
Deuteronomy 6:1-3
1) If we truly delight in the Lord We need to recognize our struggle - know our enemy.
If we don't recognize our enemy we will be facing sure defeat, like not recognizing the struggle, will make us surely down
ENVY
* Envy is resenting the advantage of another, with a desire to possess the same advantage
* Envy is coveting what another has
* The Latin word for "envy" is invidere, which means means to look at with enmity.
JEALOUSY
* Jealousy is resenting another's rivalry or unfaithfulness, with a desire to guard or maintain what one possesses.
* Jealousy is possessiveness.
* The Greek word for "jealousy" is zeloo, which means "zealous or burning with jealousy."
Envy is ALWAYS WRONG
Scripture never portrays envy in a positive light.
God is never depicted as an envious God.
Matthew 27:15-18
Jealousy IS NOT ALWAYS WRONG
It is natural and normal for feelings of jealousy to surface when a meaningful covenant relationship is threatened by unfaithfulness.
Numbers 5:25-31
Why is God called a JEALOUS God?
Jehovah God initiated a special covenant relationship with the Israelites. Because of His Love for Israel, God felt jealous pain when they threatened to destroy the covenant relationship and became disloyal.
Exodus 34:14
14 Do not worship any other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God.
The difference between Envy & Jealousy
ENVY
- burning desire to have
- coveting what another has
- empty hands that crave to be filled
- usually involves two people
JEALOUSY
- burning desire to keep
- possessive of what one has
- full hands that fear being emptied
- usually involves three people
Galatians 5:19-21
19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
How we know we are Envious?
- we feel boastful
- we feel internal pain towards the success of others
- we became competitive
How we know we are Jealous?
- we became judgemental
- not allowing others to outside relationship
- we became anxious
- overly possessive
- unable to trust God, distrustful leading to insecurity
This enemy also disguises itself:
Here are disguises for masking envy or jealousy:
- Making an issue of unfairness of life
- Pretending apathy or indifference to people or situations
- Feeling of self-pity
- Avoiding problems or people that could produce envy or provoke jealousy
- Idolizing certain people by placing them on an unreachable pedestal
- Offering false praise and congratulations
- Dropping unnecessary, negative information about another
- Projecting jealousy or envy onto another
- Developing a superior attitude toward another
- Becoming a martyr
2) Run to the Lord after recognizing our struggles.
Psalm 75:4-7 --> Realize the Sovereignty of God
3) Resist Comparing ourselves from others
Monday, August 15, 2011
Managing / Mastering Your Emotions part 2
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1 Timothy 4:7-8 --> Discipline yourself for the purpose of Godliness
Galatians 5:22-23
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
1 Timothy 4:7-8 --> Discipline yourself for the purpose of Godliness
7 Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly. 8 For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.
Discipline yourself:
- to have quiet time
- attend worship
- D-group
- Discipline of SOLITUDE
- Discipline of MIND --> what you think will impact your feelings and will impact your life
How to turn Negative Emotions to blessings ?
- Master your emotions by being God-centered
1) Awareness
Emotions are windows to your soul
1 Kings 19:18
18 Yet I reserve seven thousand in Israel—all whose knees have not bowed down to Baal and whose mouths have not kissed him.”
2) Assume Responsibility -- God told Elijah to GO BACK and take ACTION
3) Align with God
Psalm 32:5
5 Then I acknowledged my sin to you
and did not cover up my iniquity.
I said, “I will confess
my transgressions to the LORD.”
And you forgave
the guilt of my sin.
and did not cover up my iniquity.
I said, “I will confess
my transgressions to the LORD.”
And you forgave
the guilt of my sin.
Psalm 32:10-11
10 Many are the woes of the wicked,
but the LORD’s unfailing love
surrounds the one who trusts in him.
but the LORD’s unfailing love
surrounds the one who trusts in him.
11 Rejoice in the LORD and be glad, you righteous;
sing, all you who are upright in heart!
sing, all you who are upright in heart!
2 Corinthians 10:5
5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.
Philippians 1:18
18 But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.
Yes, and I will continue to rejoice,
Philippians 1:21 >> Reason why Paul is joyful
21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.
Matthew 6:33
33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 11:28
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Snakes in my dreams
I woke up at the sound of my alarm at 6AM and tried my best to sleep again for a few minutes. Then I had this dream...
I was with a group of people chatting in a room. Looks like a bedroom with cabinets on top. Then I slouched against the wall and saw this snake dangling from the cabinet hissing its way toward me. I jumped out of fear. Then one person grabbed that snake and killed it. And then it all happened so fast, I saw a lot of snakes coming out of the cabinet. It turned into a cage with a hole (so that's the reason why they got out of the cage). The same person grabs the other snake and killed it with a snap of her hands. But she suddenly was bitten by another one and I think she died. Then I shouted "TULONG!!!" (Since we are Filipinos and in the Philippines I don't think shouting HELP is appropriate). Then in a flash, I saw a man with red eyes I think he killed the entire snake with the help of his comrades.
Then I woke up again feeling so tense and afraid it's just 6:20AM. I was not able to sleep after that.
It's my first time dreaming of snakes and it's really vivid. So this prompts me to research on meaning of my dreams about snakes.
"Seeing a snake or be bitten by one in your dream means hidden fears and worries that are threatening you. Your dream may be alerting you to something in your waking life that you are not aware of or that has not yet surfaced."
"The snake is a powerful dream symbol, associated with the feminine, healing and spirituality. Being bitten by a snake in a dream is actually positive, meaning you are accepting all parts of your nature as you grow into a stronger person"
This is contradictory to:
"If they bite you, you will succumb to evil influences, and enemies will injure your business."
I will research more about this if I have the time.
But whatever it is, whether good or bad, fortunes or misfortunes, problems, fears worries and trials. I must not believe in their meaning or interpretation. I just read a devotional today and God's word gives me peace.
I was with a group of people chatting in a room. Looks like a bedroom with cabinets on top. Then I slouched against the wall and saw this snake dangling from the cabinet hissing its way toward me. I jumped out of fear. Then one person grabbed that snake and killed it. And then it all happened so fast, I saw a lot of snakes coming out of the cabinet. It turned into a cage with a hole (so that's the reason why they got out of the cage). The same person grabs the other snake and killed it with a snap of her hands. But she suddenly was bitten by another one and I think she died. Then I shouted "TULONG!!!" (Since we are Filipinos and in the Philippines I don't think shouting HELP is appropriate). Then in a flash, I saw a man with red eyes I think he killed the entire snake with the help of his comrades.
Then I woke up again feeling so tense and afraid it's just 6:20AM. I was not able to sleep after that.
It's my first time dreaming of snakes and it's really vivid. So this prompts me to research on meaning of my dreams about snakes.
"Seeing a snake or be bitten by one in your dream means hidden fears and worries that are threatening you. Your dream may be alerting you to something in your waking life that you are not aware of or that has not yet surfaced."
"The snake is a powerful dream symbol, associated with the feminine, healing and spirituality. Being bitten by a snake in a dream is actually positive, meaning you are accepting all parts of your nature as you grow into a stronger person"
This is contradictory to:
"If they bite you, you will succumb to evil influences, and enemies will injure your business."
I will research more about this if I have the time.
But whatever it is, whether good or bad, fortunes or misfortunes, problems, fears worries and trials. I must not believe in their meaning or interpretation. I just read a devotional today and God's word gives me peace.
Thursday, August 11, 2011
How Do We Know If We Love Christ?
J. C. Ryle writes:
1. If we love a person, we like to think about him. We do not need to be reminded of him. We do not forget his name or his appearance or his character or his opinions or his tastes or his position or his occupation... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!2. If we love a person, we like to hear about him. We find a pleasure in listening to those who speak of him. We feel an interest in any report which others make of him... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!3. If we love a person, we like to read about him. What intense pleasure a letter from an absent husband gives to a wife, or a letter from an absent son to his mother... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!4. If we love a person, we like to please him. We are glad to consult his tastes and opinions, to act upon his advice and do the things which he approves... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!5. If we love a person, we like his friends. We are favorably inclined to them, even before we know them. We are drawn to them by the common tie of common love to one and the same person... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!6. If we love a person, we are jealous about his name and honor. We do not like to hear him spoken against, without speaking up for him and defending him... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!7. If we love a person, we like to talk to him. We tell him all our thoughts, and pour out all our heart to him. We find no difficulty in discovering subjects of conversation... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!8. Finally, if we love a person, we like to be always with him. Thinking and hearing and reading and occasionally talking are all well in their way. But when we really love people we want something more... Well, it is just so between the true Christian and Christ!
Holiness, (Darlington, England: Evangelical Press,) 247-249.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Floating Incident
In line with the recent trending news about Christopher Lao I just realized that people are quick to judge. I myself is judging him that he even blame others for what is supposedly common sense for him. Good thing, John reminded me about the last week teaching -- Managing your emotions. As repeatedly said at church do not judge -- perhaps he was on a hurry to go home.
It's hard to manage emotions especially if you are in a difficult situation. Situations such as these where in something goes wrong and you wanted to blame others. His emotions that time is so high coupled with huge frustration that he didn't think straight and admit mistake. It really takes a lot of courage and character to accept your mistake and humbled yourself in front of all.
I'm like that most of the time, I know I'm wrong but wouldn't accept it. I would even defend and give excuses just so I wouldn't be totally wrong.
Anyways, sorry to Christopher Lao that I judged him as well. He got a point really, someone should have told him when they already saw that he is trying to pass the flooded road. There are a lot of people lurking in there and they should have warned him. Oh well, perhaps the people there didn't know either.
It's hard to manage emotions especially if you are in a difficult situation. Situations such as these where in something goes wrong and you wanted to blame others. His emotions that time is so high coupled with huge frustration that he didn't think straight and admit mistake. It really takes a lot of courage and character to accept your mistake and humbled yourself in front of all.
I'm like that most of the time, I know I'm wrong but wouldn't accept it. I would even defend and give excuses just so I wouldn't be totally wrong.
Anyways, sorry to Christopher Lao that I judged him as well. He got a point really, someone should have told him when they already saw that he is trying to pass the flooded road. There are a lot of people lurking in there and they should have warned him. Oh well, perhaps the people there didn't know either.
Monday, August 1, 2011
Managing Your Emotions
Master Your Emotions
- delayed gratification means to WAIT ....
What is Emotional Intelligence?
- ability to recognize moods, feelings and process them into right thinking and actions
When Expectations do not match Reality there is Disappointment
The more we shelter our children with disappointment, the more devastating their future will be.
Master your emotions by being GOD-CENTERED
How to be God-centered:
1. Turn to God all the time. PRAY
2. Process with God
3. Trust Him. Entrust circumstances, problems
4. Wait for the Lord
5. Praise Him
SAUL --> Example of Human-centered
1 Samuel 18:14-16 --> Insecurity
1 Samuel 15:24 --> Fear
1 Samuel 20:31-33 --> Anger
Do not make decisions when emotionally high
DAVID --> Example of God-centered
1 Samuel 17:28-29
1 Samuel 30:3-4
We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.
Psalm 57:1-2, 9
1 Samuel 24:4-10
Fact - Faith - Feeling
this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the LORD
all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the LORD
and to seek him in his temple.
>> David's attitude toward God
- delayed gratification means to WAIT ....
What is Emotional Intelligence?
- ability to recognize moods, feelings and process them into right thinking and actions
When Expectations do not match Reality there is Disappointment
The more we shelter our children with disappointment, the more devastating their future will be.
1 Peter 2:2
"Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation"
>>> if you have tasted the goodness of God there is hunger for the word of GodLuke 2.52
52 And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. 1 Corinthians 3:1-3
1 Brothers and sisters, I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but as people who are still worldly—mere infants in Christ. 2 I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. 3 You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere humans? Master your emotions by being GOD-CENTERED
How to be God-centered:
1. Turn to God all the time. PRAY
2. Process with God
3. Trust Him. Entrust circumstances, problems
4. Wait for the Lord
5. Praise Him
SAUL --> Example of Human-centered
1 Samuel 18:14-16 --> Insecurity
1 Samuel 15:24 --> Fear
1 Samuel 20:31-33 --> Anger
Do not make decisions when emotionally high
DAVID --> Example of God-centered
1 Samuel 17:28-29
1 Samuel 30:3-4
1 Samuel 30:6
6 David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters. But David found strength in the LORD his God. Psalm 56:3-4, 11-12
3 When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.
4 In God, whose word I praise—
in God I trust and am not afraid.
What can mere mortals do to me?
4 In God, whose word I praise—
in God I trust and am not afraid.
What can mere mortals do to me?
11 in God I trust and am not afraid.
What can man do to me?
What can man do to me?
12 I am under vows to you, my God;
I will present my thank offerings to you.
I will present my thank offerings to you.
Psalm 43:5
5 Why, my soul, are you downcast?
Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
for I will yet praise him,
my Savior and my God.
Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
for I will yet praise him,
my Savior and my God.
We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.
Psalm 57:1-2, 9
1 Samuel 24:4-10
Fact - Faith - Feeling
Psalm 27:4
4 One thing I ask from the LORD, this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the LORD
all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the LORD
and to seek him in his temple.
>> David's attitude toward God
Reading the Bible
I love reading books. I read novels, romance, suspense, mystery, children, educational, series and a lot more. Books of Sidney Sheldon, Johanna Lindsey, Nora Roberts, Dan Brown, Paulo Coelho, Nicholas Sparks, J.K. Rowling, Stephanie Meyer and many more.
However, I came to realize that I haven't read the most important book -- the BIBLE.
It was just now that I learned how can I finish the bible. At first, I was planning to read it on January. So i could really start it from the start. However, I realize why start on January if I could actually start today.
I pray that I could finish the bible every year, and learn to apply God's word. Even though I'm in the office or anywhere I should vow to have a few minutes to read what is in store for the day.
I pray that I could finish the book every year.
Good thing, Our Daily Bread is already online.
I could access it at the office and read bible online as well.
However, I came to realize that I haven't read the most important book -- the BIBLE.
It was just now that I learned how can I finish the bible. At first, I was planning to read it on January. So i could really start it from the start. However, I realize why start on January if I could actually start today.
I pray that I could finish the bible every year, and learn to apply God's word. Even though I'm in the office or anywhere I should vow to have a few minutes to read what is in store for the day.
I pray that I could finish the book every year.
Good thing, Our Daily Bread is already online.
I could access it at the office and read bible online as well.
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Faithfulness
Faithfulness - being "BIG" in the "LITTLE" Things.
Like a bad tooth or a lame foot is reliance on the unfaithful in times of trouble.
- Proverbs 25:19
Like their fathers they were disloyal and faithless, as unreliable as a faulty bow.
- Psalm 78:57
These little things are unimportant in the eyes of the world but they are important in the eyes of God.
1. The SOURCE of faithfulness
The faithfulness that pleases God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.
- Galatians 5:22
We came to a point where we surrender ourselves to the Lord. And at the point of that surrender is the Holy Spirit that dwell in us. And the fruit is the faithfulness. But in all these we need God's help to receive the Holy Spirit.
2. The APPLICATION of faithfulness
Being BIG in the Little Things.
We are asked to play small roles without significance. But if we are faithful because we believe that God has called us to do these little things it blesses the name of the Lord and it blesses other people.
Faithfulness means a great reward from the greater rewarder.
He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much.
- Luke 16:10
Being faithful in "little" things puts these to the test:
* our MOTIVES
- why we are doing what we are doing?
- who is it for?
* our CONSISTENCY
- Being faithful till the end
* our SENSE of WORTH
- where does our sense of worth come from? From applause of the people? Or from pleasing God?
Faithfulness is an "EVERYDAY" practice
- Has regular quiet time with the Lord
- Tithes regularly
- Keeps promises
- Is the same person at home, at work or in church
- Doesn't seek the limelight, but to finish the job
- Speaks the truth always
- Admits mistakes without rationalizing or blaming
- Takes initiative without being told
- Keeps accountable / gives update without being asked
- pay debts without being asked
- Meets deadlines
- Keeps right priorities - God, family, work, ministry, others
- Spends according to a budget
- Does not give up despite setbacks
- Cares for others' things as if they were his own
- Keeps confidential matters confidential
- Flees from, rather than flirts with temptation
- Is true to his marriage vows
Faithfulness is a LIFESTYLE, comes from inside-out. We cannot do it alone without the Holy Spirit.
3. The MOTIVATION of faithfulness
- Pleasing GOD -
Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.
- Galatians 1:10
Real Rewards of Faithfulness:
His master replied, "Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your Master's happiness!"
- Matthew 25:21
Our greatest motivator of faithfulness is because GOD is always faithful to us.
Like a bad tooth or a lame foot is reliance on the unfaithful in times of trouble.
- Proverbs 25:19
Like their fathers they were disloyal and faithless, as unreliable as a faulty bow.
- Psalm 78:57
These little things are unimportant in the eyes of the world but they are important in the eyes of God.
1. The SOURCE of faithfulness
The faithfulness that pleases God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.
- Galatians 5:22
We came to a point where we surrender ourselves to the Lord. And at the point of that surrender is the Holy Spirit that dwell in us. And the fruit is the faithfulness. But in all these we need God's help to receive the Holy Spirit.
2. The APPLICATION of faithfulness
Being BIG in the Little Things.
We are asked to play small roles without significance. But if we are faithful because we believe that God has called us to do these little things it blesses the name of the Lord and it blesses other people.
Faithfulness means a great reward from the greater rewarder.
He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much.
- Luke 16:10
Being faithful in "little" things puts these to the test:
* our MOTIVES
- why we are doing what we are doing?
- who is it for?
* our CONSISTENCY
- Being faithful till the end
* our SENSE of WORTH
- where does our sense of worth come from? From applause of the people? Or from pleasing God?
Faithfulness is an "EVERYDAY" practice
- Has regular quiet time with the Lord
- Tithes regularly
- Keeps promises
- Is the same person at home, at work or in church
- Doesn't seek the limelight, but to finish the job
- Speaks the truth always
- Admits mistakes without rationalizing or blaming
- Takes initiative without being told
- Keeps accountable / gives update without being asked
- pay debts without being asked
- Meets deadlines
- Keeps right priorities - God, family, work, ministry, others
- Spends according to a budget
- Does not give up despite setbacks
- Cares for others' things as if they were his own
- Keeps confidential matters confidential
- Flees from, rather than flirts with temptation
- Is true to his marriage vows
Faithfulness is a LIFESTYLE, comes from inside-out. We cannot do it alone without the Holy Spirit.
3. The MOTIVATION of faithfulness
- Pleasing GOD -
Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.
- Galatians 1:10
Real Rewards of Faithfulness:
His master replied, "Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your Master's happiness!"
- Matthew 25:21
Our greatest motivator of faithfulness is because GOD is always faithful to us.
Friday, July 8, 2011
Balance Sheet of Life
I got this from my forwarded message from my D-group leader, just wanted to share it here :D
BALANCE SHEET OF LIFE
Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Egoistic Views are our Liabilities
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets
Heart is our Current Asset
Soul is our Fixed Asset
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
Thinking is our Current Account
Acts of Self-giving are our Capital
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade
Friends are our General Reserves
Values & Behavior are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned
Holiness is our Dividend
Children and Followers are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands / Patents
Personal Formation is our Investment
Experience is our Premium Account
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet accurately
The Goal is: To make God smile when He looks at your Balance Sheet.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Some very Good and Very Bad Things
The most destructive habit.............................. Worry
The greatest Joy....................................... Self Giving
The greatest loss............................ Lack of Sincerity
The most satisfying work................... Helping others
The ugliest personality trait..................... Selfishness
The most endangered species....... Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource... Our youthfulness, beginning again
The greatest 'shot in the arm'............. Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome.............. Cowardice
The most effective sleeping pill............. Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease..................Excuses
The most powerful force in life........................ Charity
The most destructive act............................... Infidelity
The world's most incredible computer.........The brain
The worst thing to be without............................ Hope
The deadliest weapon.................... .........The tongue
The two most power-filled words.................. “I Can”
My greatest asset.................... “I am a child of God”
The most worthless emotion...................... Self- pity
The most beautiful attire.............................. SMILE!
My most prized possession............... ..... Reliability
My most powerful channel of communication... Prayer
The most contagious spirit..................... Enthusiasm
Life ends: when you stop Fighting for Holiness,
Hope ends: when you stop Trusting God,
Love ends: when you stop Caring for the Others,
And Friendship ends: when you stop Sharing …!!!
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Calm & Mildness
I'm a warfreak and Thank God I was able to calm myself in replying back to a Facebook friend (rather acquaintance). I went to a retreat last last week. And I posted pictures in my FB account. He commented about my baptism pictures, such as "Why are they drowning this poor kid?" , "Oh it's you, Why are they trying to kill you?" and even tag one of my picture as "Pool to drown innocent people in". During my one hour travel I was praying to the Lord to calm myself and stop me from replying back and arguing with him. By the grace of God, I was able to stop myself and calmly deleted all those comments, untag the pictures and just reply to what really matters. :)
Monday, July 4, 2011
Formula One Retreat
I attended a Single's retreat last June 25-26 @ CCT Tagaytay. I know I believe in my heart that God is my savior and I will be saved and have eternal life through Jesus. But, I never fully surrender myself to Him. I realize that I have God as a mere help with all that is happening to me. I pray and ask for His help. Little did I know that all I need to do is to fully ask Him to take control. For me to just surrender and have faith in Him that everything will be done according to His will.
It's really hard surrendering everything, because there's always this fear. Sometimes I want this and that, but God wants the other way. Either way, I need to trust God that He know's what's best and it's for my own good.
I wanted to be spiritually mature for my boyfriend so I could be his strength in times of need. I wanted to grow spiritually for him so we could face life challenges. After this retreat I came to realize that I wanted to be God's best for him as well. I pray that I will be.
It's really hard surrendering everything, because there's always this fear. Sometimes I want this and that, but God wants the other way. Either way, I need to trust God that He know's what's best and it's for my own good.
I wanted to be spiritually mature for my boyfriend so I could be his strength in times of need. I wanted to grow spiritually for him so we could face life challenges. After this retreat I came to realize that I wanted to be God's best for him as well. I pray that I will be.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Don't know what to pray for
Just when I'm lost and really don't know what to pray, I came upon on this verse during my devotion.
Romans 8:26-27
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
Romans 8:26-27
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Pray and Pray
I read in devotion about - Praying until what you pray for has been accomplished or until you have complete assurance in your heart that it will be.
I have this prayer(s) and felt like God is no longer answering them. Or maybe He's answer is No. God reminded me that I shouldn't stop praying about it. He's listening and will answer them in His time.
I have this prayer(s) and felt like God is no longer answering them. Or maybe He's answer is No. God reminded me that I shouldn't stop praying about it. He's listening and will answer them in His time.
Luke 18
The Parable of the Persistent Widow
1 Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. 2 He said: “In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared what people thought. 3 And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, ‘Grant me justice against my adversary.’4 “For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, ‘Even though I don’t fear God or care what people think, 5 yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won’t eventually come and attack me!’”
6 And the Lord said, “Listen to what the unjust judge says. 7 And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? 8 I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?”
Friday, June 3, 2011
The Spiritual Practice of Trust
Trust is a spiritual practice that transforms us, that helps us obey the command against worrying.
Keri Wyatt Kent
Keri Wyatt Kent
One of the most startling and challenging commandments of Jesus is this: do not worry.
You may not even have noticed those three little words take the form of a command, or considered worry a "sin" to confess or avoid. But with this simple directive, "Do not worry about your life …" (Matt. 6:25, NIV) Jesus calls us to trust him, and to let go of having to control the outcome of every situation. When we do that, we will have joy, even in challenging circumstances. To do so requires a certain emotional detachment, a conscious letting go of needing to control the outcome of every situation.
It's not that we don't care; we do. But we cast our cares on him, let go of trying to control things that are truly beyond our control. Many of us are professional worriers. In fact, even our prayers are shaped mostly by worry. We get on our knees not to commune with God but to handle damage control for him, to alert him to what's going on in this crazy world and to suggest solutions.
Trust is a choice, the alternative to worry. Other people may misinterpret our trust as carelessness or irresponsibility. But really, we are simply turning over our lives, one moment at a time, to God's excellent and dependable provision. Trust is a spiritual practice that transforms us, that helps us obey the command against worrying.
Unlike other practices, such as prayer, study, solitude, and so forth, the practice of trust is not something we can schedule. We kind of have to wait for situations that would cause us to worry or fear, and in the midst of that situation, choose to believe that we are safe in the arms of God. We have to sail along and wait for a rogue wave or a sudden wind shift, and trust we will not capsize. We must be attentive to see the opportunity in a moment of struggle.
To choose to trust does not mean we don't care, but that we place our cares in the hands of one who cares for us.
In my book, Deeper into the Word, I wrote:
In English, the word "care" has two nearly opposite meanings. If someone cares, they are interested and concerned. If someone has a care, they perhaps have an anxiety or worry. Having someone care for us can alleviate our cares.
Likewise, in New Testament Greek, there are different meanings, but in some cases, several different words to signify those meanings. Merimna (and the verb form merimnao) means anxiety, or to have a care (this word is translated worry in Matthew 6:25). … Epimeleomai means to take care of, to provide for. It is used both in Luke 10 to describe the Good Samaritan's care for the wounded man, and in 1 Timothy 3:5 to describe the role of a bishop or overseer of the church—perhaps, some scholars suggest, alluding to a parallel between these two roles.
… 1 Peter 5:7 exhorts believers to give our anxiety over to the care of Jesus: "casting all your care (merimna) upon him, for he cares (melei) for you" (NKJV). It's an interesting play on words—we can release our cares (our anxiety, worries) to Jesus because of his care (his deep concern and loving provision) for us. This word care, when it refers to God, reminds us of his amazing love for us.
Jesus noted in Matthew 13:22 that the "cares (merimna) of this world" can choke out our spiritual growth. When life throws us challenging circumstances, we have a choice to make: will we worry or trust? Will we believe God is in control or expect the worst? This is the only place we have the opportunity to engage in the practice of trust—in the trenches of difficult circumstances.
Do you engage in the spiritual practice of trust? What will it take for you to embrace the truth that Jesus cares for you, deeply, and that you can entrust him with all your cares?
Monday, April 18, 2011
Holy Week
My to do list this holy week:
~ pray and fast on Thursday @ Prayer Mountain (Antipolo)
~ pray and fast on Thursday @ Prayer Mountain (Antipolo)
~ Watch Faith like Potatoes and Letters to God
~ More quiet time during my stay at the province
~ More prayers to fight off temptations
~ start a journal of my prayers
~ More quiet time during my stay at the province
~ More prayers to fight off temptations
~ start a journal of my prayers
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Love Believes the Best
APRIL 3
http://www.ccf.org.ph/love-believes-the-best/
To fall in love is one thing but to stay in love for a lifetime is SOMETHING.
Love bears all things
Love believes all things
Love hopes all things
Love endures all things
Love Believes the Best .. Endures the Worst
In the Christian Life:
The battlefield is in the mind
Advice:
When you wake up in the morning..
open your bible .. NOT email, NOT FACEBOOK!!!
Secret to a long relationship:
Positive Illusion
- give each other the benefit of the doubt
How to be a positive thinker:
believe that God is good,
nothing is impossible with God,
Confidence is in God alone not with people
Don't put your confidence in the ability of human nature to change people
but put your confidence in God's ability to change people...
If you don't assume responsibility on the way you think you will encounter problems.
Because the way you think impact lives and relationship.
By doubting people you don't help them but showing trust will empower them to change.
Do not judge so that you will not be judged.
http://www.ccf.org.ph/love-believes-the-best/
To fall in love is one thing but to stay in love for a lifetime is SOMETHING.
Love bears all things
Love believes all things
Love hopes all things
Love endures all things
Love Believes the Best .. Endures the Worst
In the Christian Life:
The battlefield is in the mind
Advice:
When you wake up in the morning..
open your bible .. NOT email, NOT FACEBOOK!!!
Secret to a long relationship:
Positive Illusion
- give each other the benefit of the doubt
How to be a positive thinker:
believe that God is good,
nothing is impossible with God,
Confidence is in God alone not with people
Don't put your confidence in the ability of human nature to change people
but put your confidence in God's ability to change people...
If you don't assume responsibility on the way you think you will encounter problems.
Because the way you think impact lives and relationship.
By doubting people you don't help them but showing trust will empower them to change.
Do not judge so that you will not be judged.
Silver lining of the dark clouds
It came about as Aaron spoke to the whole congregation of the sons of Israel, that they looked toward the wilderness, and behold, the glory of the LORD appeared in the cloud.
Exodus 16:10
I was reading the devotion and I read this phrase "looked for a silver lining on the dark clouds" and then I read the newspaper lifestyle section and once again saw this phrase "looked for a silver lining on the storm clouds.
As of this time, I could perfectly relate to it. It's like Im being crowded by this dark clouds. Literally, when we went to Acuatico there are dark clouds all over which is a perfect setting on our disagreements/argument that night. I'm having this struggle since it's not just the first time. I know it's a petty sin compared to others but still I'm affected and hurt. I'm trying to be strong and act normal but its really really really hard. I'm constantly paranoid.
God knows what's in my heart. I just pray that I can hold on and be strong.
And I think it's God's way of letting me know that there is indeed silver lining on the dark clouds.
Exodus 16:10
I was reading the devotion and I read this phrase "looked for a silver lining on the dark clouds" and then I read the newspaper lifestyle section and once again saw this phrase "looked for a silver lining on the storm clouds.
As of this time, I could perfectly relate to it. It's like Im being crowded by this dark clouds. Literally, when we went to Acuatico there are dark clouds all over which is a perfect setting on our disagreements/argument that night. I'm having this struggle since it's not just the first time. I know it's a petty sin compared to others but still I'm affected and hurt. I'm trying to be strong and act normal but its really really really hard. I'm constantly paranoid.
God knows what's in my heart. I just pray that I can hold on and be strong.
And I think it's God's way of letting me know that there is indeed silver lining on the dark clouds.
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Love is Action (Feb20)
Love is ACTION.
Love is a commitment.
1 John 4:19-21
19 We love because he first loved us. 20 Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
John 21:15-17 (Jesus Reinstates Peter)
15 When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”
Luke 10:25-37 (The Parable of the Good Samaritan)
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
--> When a man can help and does not, then he deserves to suffer.
Ultimate Secret: God loves you!!!
Love is a commitment.
1 John 4:19-21
19 We love because he first loved us. 20 Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.
John 21:15-17 (Jesus Reinstates Peter)
15 When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”
“Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.”
Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.”
16 Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”
Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.”
17 The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”
Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.”
Jesus said, “Feed my sheep.
-->"Strengthen your family ties and you will tend to succeed."Luke 10:25-37 (The Parable of the Good Samaritan)
25 On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”
26 “What is written in the Law?” he replied. “How do you read it?”
27 He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’a]">; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.”
28 “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”
29 But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
30 In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denariic]">[c] and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’
36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”
--> Motion first before Emotion--> When a man can help and does not, then he deserves to suffer.
Ultimate Secret: God loves you!!!
Love is Action
Last Friday, it was discussed that Love is Action. There is this story that the pastor and his sister argued. The pastor knew that he need to apologize even though it's not his fault because Love is Action. Last night, John and I had a misunderstanding. I fell asleep thinking about this and none of us gave in. It seems that at the back of my mind I always do the first move. He didnt even bother do it first. I woke up with heavy eyes and heart. Next time, I'll see to it that it wont happen again.
Flywheel
It's a Christian movie last 2003. The producers are those who created the Facing the Giants and Fireproof. While Facing the Giants are about challenges in life, Fireproof about Marriage stuffs, Flywheel is about doing honest work. All these are through faith to God.
Again, I got teary eyed to this film. God is truly amazing once you surrender everything to Him. Though is is just a fictional movie, there are more stories like this that shows greatness of God. It made me realize how dishonest I am at my work.
Lord help me do the right thing. Help me surrender and let Your will be done.
Again, I got teary eyed to this film. God is truly amazing once you surrender everything to Him. Though is is just a fictional movie, there are more stories like this that shows greatness of God. It made me realize how dishonest I am at my work.
Lord help me do the right thing. Help me surrender and let Your will be done.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Road
While watching Sungkyunkwan, i came upon this quote:
If there's an easy road and difficult road, choose the difficult one.
Then even if you may not always succeed, you won't have any regrets.
I just realized that I loved my comfort zone. In one month time, I'll be transferring to another team with different skill set. Honestly I'm scared but I have to start growing. I know God will not allow me if I'm not capable. It's in Him that I'll have strength and knowledge. And with Him I'll succeed.
If there's an easy road and difficult road, choose the difficult one.
Then even if you may not always succeed, you won't have any regrets.
I just realized that I loved my comfort zone. In one month time, I'll be transferring to another team with different skill set. Honestly I'm scared but I have to start growing. I know God will not allow me if I'm not capable. It's in Him that I'll have strength and knowledge. And with Him I'll succeed.
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Principles of the Way of the Shepherd
Even though I was not able to relate to this book, I was able to finish it. Hoping that I someday I could apply these principles not just as leader in work but in my family as well.
Here's the guidelines for being a great Shepherd / Leader.
Principles of the Way of the Shepherd
- by Dr. Kevin Leman & William Pentak
- Interview with Theodore McBride (CEO of General Technologies); MBA student of Dr. Jack Nuemann
1. Know the Condition of Your Flock
- Follow the status of your people as well as the status of the work.
- Get to know your flock, one sheep at a time.
- Engage your people on a regular basis.
- Keep your eyes and ears open, question, and follow through.
2. Discover the Shape of Your Sheep
- Your choice of sheep can make flock management easier or harder.
- Start with healthy sheep, or you'll inherit someone else's problems.
- Know the SHAPE of your sheep to make sure they're in the right fold.
S-trengths
H-eart
A-ttitude
P-ersonality
E-xperienceS
3. Help Your Sheep Identify with You
- Build trust with your followers by modeling authenticity, integrity and compassion.
- Set high standards of performance.
- Relentlessly communicate your values and sense of mission.
- Define the cause for your people and tell them where they fit in.
- Remember that great leadership isn't just professional; its personal.
4. Make Your Pasture a Safe Place
- Keep your people well informed.
- Infuse every position with importance.
- Cull chronic instigators from the flock.
- Regularly rotate the sheep to fresh pastures.
- Reassure the sheep by staying visible.
- Don't give problems time to fester.
5. The Staff of Direction
- Know where you're going, get out in front, and keep your flock on the move.
- When directing, use persuasion rather than coercion.
- Give your people freedom of movement, but make sure they know where the fence line is. Don't confuse boundaries with bridles!
- When your people get in trouble, go and get them out.
- Remind your people that failure isn't fatal.
6. The Rod of Correction
- PROTECT: Stand in the gap and fight for your sheep.
- CORRECT: Approach disciple as a teaching opportunity.
- INSPECT: Regularly inquire about your people's progress.
7. The Heart of the Shepherd
- Great leadership is a lifestyle, not a technique.
- Every day you have to decide who's going to pay for your leadership - you or your people.
- Most of all, have a heart for your sheep.
Here's the guidelines for being a great Shepherd / Leader.
Principles of the Way of the Shepherd
- by Dr. Kevin Leman & William Pentak
- Interview with Theodore McBride (CEO of General Technologies); MBA student of Dr. Jack Nuemann
1. Know the Condition of Your Flock
- Follow the status of your people as well as the status of the work.
- Get to know your flock, one sheep at a time.
- Engage your people on a regular basis.
- Keep your eyes and ears open, question, and follow through.
2. Discover the Shape of Your Sheep
- Your choice of sheep can make flock management easier or harder.
- Start with healthy sheep, or you'll inherit someone else's problems.
- Know the SHAPE of your sheep to make sure they're in the right fold.
S-trengths
H-eart
A-ttitude
P-ersonality
E-xperienceS
3. Help Your Sheep Identify with You
- Build trust with your followers by modeling authenticity, integrity and compassion.
- Set high standards of performance.
- Relentlessly communicate your values and sense of mission.
- Define the cause for your people and tell them where they fit in.
- Remember that great leadership isn't just professional; its personal.
4. Make Your Pasture a Safe Place
- Keep your people well informed.
- Infuse every position with importance.
- Cull chronic instigators from the flock.
- Regularly rotate the sheep to fresh pastures.
- Reassure the sheep by staying visible.
- Don't give problems time to fester.
5. The Staff of Direction
- Know where you're going, get out in front, and keep your flock on the move.
- When directing, use persuasion rather than coercion.
- Give your people freedom of movement, but make sure they know where the fence line is. Don't confuse boundaries with bridles!
- When your people get in trouble, go and get them out.
- Remind your people that failure isn't fatal.
6. The Rod of Correction
- PROTECT: Stand in the gap and fight for your sheep.
- CORRECT: Approach disciple as a teaching opportunity.
- INSPECT: Regularly inquire about your people's progress.
7. The Heart of the Shepherd
- Great leadership is a lifestyle, not a technique.
- Every day you have to decide who's going to pay for your leadership - you or your people.
- Most of all, have a heart for your sheep.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
He keeps the key
(Anonymous)
Is there some problem in your life to solve,
Some passage seeming full of mystery?
God knows, who brings the hidden things to light.
He keeps the key.
Is there some door closed by the Father's hand
Which widely opened you had hoped to see?
Trust God and wait -- for when He shuts the door
He keeps the key.
Is there some earnest prayer unanswered yet,
Or answered NOT as you had thought 'twould be?
God will make clear His purpose by and by.
He keeps the key.
Have patience with your God, your patient God,
All wise, all knowing, no long lingerer He,
And of the door of all your future life
He keeps the key.
Unfailing comfort, sweet and blessed rest,
To know of EVERY door He keeps the key.
That He at last when just He sees is best,
Will give it THEE.
Is there some problem in your life to solve,
Some passage seeming full of mystery?
God knows, who brings the hidden things to light.
He keeps the key.
Is there some door closed by the Father's hand
Which widely opened you had hoped to see?
Trust God and wait -- for when He shuts the door
He keeps the key.
Is there some earnest prayer unanswered yet,
Or answered NOT as you had thought 'twould be?
God will make clear His purpose by and by.
He keeps the key.
Have patience with your God, your patient God,
All wise, all knowing, no long lingerer He,
And of the door of all your future life
He keeps the key.
Unfailing comfort, sweet and blessed rest,
To know of EVERY door He keeps the key.
That He at last when just He sees is best,
Will give it THEE.
I could say that my spiritual life is bad cause I really don't have one.
- We're not constant church goers
- I don't make it a habit to pray or rather to have my daily devotion where I could talk to God not just when I have issues or problems but just to really talk to Him. Thank Him for all the blessings and just say what transpire on my day.
- I don't have a D-group or cell group
On this year I hope and pray that I could change all that and continue to grow with God.
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